yeah you are wwell alright here i go uh wwell i wwas wwonderin if you had any tips or anythin concernin a CERTAIN activvity betwween you and your concupiscent quadrant mates i mean im not sayin ivve DONE anythin like that because no of course NOT but im more so concernin myself wwith the chances of it comin up and wwhat i should do to prepare for that or maybe evven askin about some good movves i dont knoww i just feel like im at that point that if somethin happens id be alright wwith followwin through but im a bit disheartened ovver howw im not exactly wwell experienced and hardly havve much of a clue to evven begin the basics are there im not a bloody IDIOT obvviously but i dont knoww do you havve any advvice concernin this maybe especially in the black quadrant like wwhat if im readin signs wwrong and think he might wwant more than hes actually ready for howw do i knoww if hes ready for that sorta thing so i dont make myself out to be a utter tool or seem too pushy on the subject
Ah, wwell this is an area I'vve got quite a bit a experience in as you might imagine. First thing you'vve got to remember is to be confident an sure a yourself. Especially if wwe're talkin' in the black quadrant the last thing you wwant to do is let on that you're nervvous in the least. There's a certain amount a pushiness that you'vve got to engage in, if you don't wwant your rivval to get an idea that there's a wweakness there. For Vvantas I'd say take it slowwer an don't bite or scratch unless it seems like he's into that, an if he wwants to be on top wwell you'll just havve to make your owwn decision wwhether you wwant to alloww that. But wwith your yelloww I'm sure you'll wwant to showw your dominatin' force or he wwon't respect you. A lot a this is instinctivve a course, just go wwith the floww an do wwhat comes natural and you'll be fine. An don't forget it's not as though your partner's got more experience than you, so a natural amount a fumblin' wwill probably happen on both sides wwhich is nothin' to be ashamed of. Just pretend you knoww wwhat you're doin' and try to covver up any slips as best you can. But also listen to wwhat the other one's doin', don't just be all about wwhat you wwant either. If he's respondin' wwith pleasure then kick it up a notch, if he's legitimately fightin' to get awway wwell then it's another matter.
oh uh huh yeah i guess all that makes sense duly noted all of it but uh i knoww fumblin is a part of it and all but wwhat about wwhen its like goin on i mean i got the general idea obvviously i mean howw wwould i havve er wwhatevver but still i mean do you got any advvice as far as the main evvent goes so to speak other than the wwhole toppin business cuz yeah not gonna let sol get the better of me any time soon and as for kar thats uh ill deal wwith that wwhen the time comes for it
NO THAT ISNT WWHAT IM ASKIN god i GET the plain logistics a wwhat to do i SAID that wwhat im askin is maybe some basic tips on howw to be good or somethin a that nature i dont knoww look forget it this is humiliatin as it is and maybe its just better wwe let this go forgotten or somethin
No, no, calm your fuckin fins right the hell dowwn. I'm just tryin to clarify because it wwas startin to sound like that's wwhat you wwere askin. But wwhat I wwas tellin you from the beginnin is you knoww wwhat to do if you relax and go wwith your instincts. Kiss an touch an wwork your wway towwards the goal slowwly, so he's excited an interested by the time you get to the bulge. Don't just go for the goal right awway or it'll get shy, you knoww?
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wwell alright here i go
uh
wwell i wwas wwonderin if you had any tips or anythin concernin a CERTAIN activvity betwween you and your concupiscent quadrant mates
i mean im not sayin ivve DONE anythin like that because no of course NOT
but im more so concernin myself wwith the chances of it comin up and wwhat i should do to prepare for that or maybe evven askin about some good movves
i dont knoww i just feel like im at that point that if somethin happens id be alright wwith followwin through but im a bit disheartened ovver howw im not exactly
wwell experienced and hardly havve much of a clue to evven begin
the basics are there im not a bloody IDIOT obvviously but i dont knoww do you havve any advvice concernin this
maybe especially in the black quadrant
like wwhat if im readin signs wwrong and think he might wwant more than hes actually ready for
howw do i knoww if hes ready for that sorta thing so i dont make myself out to be a utter tool or seem too pushy on the subject
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First thing you'vve got to remember is to be confident an sure a yourself.
Especially if wwe're talkin' in the black quadrant the last thing you wwant to do is let on that you're nervvous in the least.
There's a certain amount a pushiness that you'vve got to engage in, if you don't wwant your rivval to get an idea that there's a wweakness there.
For Vvantas I'd say take it slowwer an don't bite or scratch unless it seems like he's into that, an if he wwants to be on top wwell you'll just havve to make your owwn decision wwhether you wwant to alloww that.
But wwith your yelloww I'm sure you'll wwant to showw your dominatin' force or he wwon't respect you.
A lot a this is instinctivve a course, just go wwith the floww an do wwhat comes natural and you'll be fine.
An don't forget it's not as though your partner's got more experience than you, so a natural amount a fumblin' wwill probably happen on both sides wwhich is nothin' to be ashamed of.
Just pretend you knoww wwhat you're doin' and try to covver up any slips as best you can.
But also listen to wwhat the other one's doin', don't just be all about wwhat you wwant either.
If he's respondin' wwith pleasure then kick it up a notch, if he's legitimately fightin' to get awway wwell then it's another matter.
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duly noted all of it
but uh i knoww fumblin is a part of it and all but wwhat about wwhen its like
goin on
i mean
i got the general idea obvviously i mean howw wwould i havve
er
wwhatevver but still i mean do you got any advvice as far as the main evvent goes so to speak
other than the wwhole toppin business cuz yeah not gonna let sol get the better of me any time soon and as for kar thats uh ill deal wwith that wwhen the time comes for it
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god i GET the plain logistics a wwhat to do i SAID that
wwhat im askin is maybe
some basic tips on howw to be good or somethin a that nature
i dont knoww
look forget it this is humiliatin as it is and maybe its just better wwe let this go forgotten or somethin
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I'm just tryin to clarify because it wwas startin to sound like that's wwhat you wwere askin.
But wwhat I wwas tellin you from the beginnin is you knoww wwhat to do if you relax and go wwith your instincts.
Kiss an touch an wwork your wway towwards the goal slowwly, so he's excited an interested by the time you get to the bulge.
Don't just go for the goal right awway or it'll get shy, you knoww?