Ah, wwell this is an area I'vve got quite a bit a experience in as you might imagine. First thing you'vve got to remember is to be confident an sure a yourself. Especially if wwe're talkin' in the black quadrant the last thing you wwant to do is let on that you're nervvous in the least. There's a certain amount a pushiness that you'vve got to engage in, if you don't wwant your rivval to get an idea that there's a wweakness there. For Vvantas I'd say take it slowwer an don't bite or scratch unless it seems like he's into that, an if he wwants to be on top wwell you'll just havve to make your owwn decision wwhether you wwant to alloww that. But wwith your yelloww I'm sure you'll wwant to showw your dominatin' force or he wwon't respect you. A lot a this is instinctivve a course, just go wwith the floww an do wwhat comes natural and you'll be fine. An don't forget it's not as though your partner's got more experience than you, so a natural amount a fumblin' wwill probably happen on both sides wwhich is nothin' to be ashamed of. Just pretend you knoww wwhat you're doin' and try to covver up any slips as best you can. But also listen to wwhat the other one's doin', don't just be all about wwhat you wwant either. If he's respondin' wwith pleasure then kick it up a notch, if he's legitimately fightin' to get awway wwell then it's another matter.
oh uh huh yeah i guess all that makes sense duly noted all of it but uh i knoww fumblin is a part of it and all but wwhat about wwhen its like goin on i mean i got the general idea obvviously i mean howw wwould i havve er wwhatevver but still i mean do you got any advvice as far as the main evvent goes so to speak other than the wwhole toppin business cuz yeah not gonna let sol get the better of me any time soon and as for kar thats uh ill deal wwith that wwhen the time comes for it
NO THAT ISNT WWHAT IM ASKIN god i GET the plain logistics a wwhat to do i SAID that wwhat im askin is maybe some basic tips on howw to be good or somethin a that nature i dont knoww look forget it this is humiliatin as it is and maybe its just better wwe let this go forgotten or somethin
No, no, calm your fuckin fins right the hell dowwn. I'm just tryin to clarify because it wwas startin to sound like that's wwhat you wwere askin. But wwhat I wwas tellin you from the beginnin is you knoww wwhat to do if you relax and go wwith your instincts. Kiss an touch an wwork your wway towwards the goal slowwly, so he's excited an interested by the time you get to the bulge. Don't just go for the goal right awway or it'll get shy, you knoww?
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First thing you'vve got to remember is to be confident an sure a yourself.
Especially if wwe're talkin' in the black quadrant the last thing you wwant to do is let on that you're nervvous in the least.
There's a certain amount a pushiness that you'vve got to engage in, if you don't wwant your rivval to get an idea that there's a wweakness there.
For Vvantas I'd say take it slowwer an don't bite or scratch unless it seems like he's into that, an if he wwants to be on top wwell you'll just havve to make your owwn decision wwhether you wwant to alloww that.
But wwith your yelloww I'm sure you'll wwant to showw your dominatin' force or he wwon't respect you.
A lot a this is instinctivve a course, just go wwith the floww an do wwhat comes natural and you'll be fine.
An don't forget it's not as though your partner's got more experience than you, so a natural amount a fumblin' wwill probably happen on both sides wwhich is nothin' to be ashamed of.
Just pretend you knoww wwhat you're doin' and try to covver up any slips as best you can.
But also listen to wwhat the other one's doin', don't just be all about wwhat you wwant either.
If he's respondin' wwith pleasure then kick it up a notch, if he's legitimately fightin' to get awway wwell then it's another matter.
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duly noted all of it
but uh i knoww fumblin is a part of it and all but wwhat about wwhen its like
goin on
i mean
i got the general idea obvviously i mean howw wwould i havve
er
wwhatevver but still i mean do you got any advvice as far as the main evvent goes so to speak
other than the wwhole toppin business cuz yeah not gonna let sol get the better of me any time soon and as for kar thats uh ill deal wwith that wwhen the time comes for it
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god i GET the plain logistics a wwhat to do i SAID that
wwhat im askin is maybe
some basic tips on howw to be good or somethin a that nature
i dont knoww
look forget it this is humiliatin as it is and maybe its just better wwe let this go forgotten or somethin
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I'm just tryin to clarify because it wwas startin to sound like that's wwhat you wwere askin.
But wwhat I wwas tellin you from the beginnin is you knoww wwhat to do if you relax and go wwith your instincts.
Kiss an touch an wwork your wway towwards the goal slowwly, so he's excited an interested by the time you get to the bulge.
Don't just go for the goal right awway or it'll get shy, you knoww?